How Are We to Lead?
I have registered for a leadership class for the spring term and just started reading one of the books. Then, I read today’s Scripture Reading:
In Grace to Lead by Kenneth L. Carder & LaCeye C. Warner, they said something very interesting right at the beginning of the book:
“Gift”, “grateful”, and “follow” are not the usual words people associate with “leadership” or even “Christian leadership”. “Assertive”, “strong”, and “lead” are the usual suspects. When we look for leaders in the church we also usually look for those who are commanding and instill “awe” into people. In turn, we often ignore or downplay those who fail to fill those kinds of shoes.
That, unfortunately, is not the Biblical way. We need to remember that God has, from the beginning of “time”, been counter-culture. It’s not about us, and it’s all about Him. Having those traits are often NOT who will lead people to God but to themselves. I think that’s why there are so many failures in pastors and church leaders lately.
A pastor went as far as having a suspected sexual relationship with a Muslim girl, while he was selling this imagine that he is a friend of the lost….celebrities…. When their fellowship is all about those who will “sell” who he is than who God is. When a leader presents an image of “look at me” (like having multiple multi-million dollar jet planes as something they deserve to use to travel instead of travelling on commercial flight beside the peasants)…. When pastors demand his church be exempted so that thousands can gather at his church to listen to him preach when people are getting sick and dying all around them….
Be missional without being the mission giver; be grateful for the opportunity, not the fame and gain the opportunity will bring; and, be a follower in order to lead, not be the centre of whom people are to follow. That’s what Christian Leadership is all about. Are we, the leaders of God people Christian leaders, or just leaders?