This is the [remarkable degree of] confidence which we [as believers are entitled to] have before Him: that if we ask anything according to His will, [that is, consistent with His plan and purpose] He hears us. And if we know [for a fact, as indeed we do] that He hears and listens to us in whatever we ask, we [also] know [with settled and absolute knowledge] that we have [granted to us] the requests which we have asked from Him.1 John 5:14-15AMP

This is probably the most misquoted, if not one of the top 10, New Testament passage.Prayer has become a Christmas wishlist for some Christians....or pretenders....for many. Some of these prayers have selfish motives. They may think, "if only God gives me this, then I am set"; or, "if so-and-so can have it, why wouldn't God give me?"; or, "doesn't God love me, why would He not want me to have this?"; or, "God, don't you love him/her and let her life a little longer" et cetera, et cetera....We want the miracles of answered prayers but did not want to read the "fine print" or choose to ignore it. Here is the fine print: "according to His will, [that is, consistent with His plan and purpose] He hears us." To be honest, I can't really say it is a "fine print" because it is part of the text, not some footnote somewhere.The only requests which He will grant are the ones that are inline with His Will, His plan, and His purpose. He is no genie that grants our wishes. If we consider Him to be our Sovereign Lord, then He is the Master, and we are the subjects. That is the fact. We are in His created world, not the other way around.Whatever we do not have and wish for are just that, something we do not have. If whatever we ask for and He has to give us or it means He does not love us or care about us only mean the following: (1) we are narcissistically spoiled; (2) we have been, is, and will continue to be ungrateful; and, (3) God is not the Lord of the universe, we are, because we can boss the God of the Universe around like He is our subject.If we know God enough, have a good enough relationship with Him, we know if whatever we ask for is according to His Will, we would not worry about if the prayer will be answered. If we know Him well enough, we should know how we ask for things and we will not sound like a needy child in the first place.That means, what we should first ask for, before asking Him for anything, is to ask God for a proper relationship with Him. A heart of knowing better to put Him first. How can we know that? Is there a "trick" to it? Not really.To pray to know His Will is easier than you think. We must acknowledge His sovereignty in our lives, want to see His kingdom to be a reality all around us. We must believe that whatever we have are gifts from Him and never take them for granted. We must also repent for what we have done wrong, and do so for those who have wronged us. Never to forget to confess that we are not righteous as we are fallible.Is that a lot to put into a prayer? Shouldn't be. Try it and pray with me.

Our Father in heaven,may your name be kept holy.May your Kingdom come soon.May your will be done on earth,as it is in heaven.Give us today the food we need,and forgive us our sins,as we have forgiven those who sin against us.And don’t let us yield to temptation,but rescue us from the evil one.

Matthew 6:9-13New Living Translation (NLT)

The Lord's Prayer is a little more than a chant. there is a very good reason Jesus taught us that prayer: we must be in the right place with God. If we can genuinely pray that prayer, then we have a glimpse of what the Will, Plan, and Purpose of God are. It is then, that we can expect that whatever we ask of God we will receive.